I personally believe that a couple could not walk into a wedding stage and have a new family with happiness if they didn’t date each other a lot of times and realize the true meaning and what to do in each situation.
Now we, BeLoves, would like to share all of you about the real meaning of each stage of date and what to deal with:
1. The first date
For the first date is an important time to meet your crush to decide whether or not you can continue dating together for next time as a couple. It's the first impression between you and your crush that can lead to a decision whether you should continue with him/her or not. So, you have to be ready and confident before you step into a table that there are only two people, you and your crush, ready to observe each other. Be ready, be you, and be right.
2. Dating in phase of building love intimacy and memories
After making a decision to start looking for a couple relationship, it is time that you have to make more dates to build a strong relationship with each other through intimate feeling, caring, justifying, and sacrificing. However, something will go wrong from your expectation and afford. A date can also make barriers because the time of your date is incompatible with the situation, especially when each of both of you tries to look at the negative points from each other and forget to add and value the positive ones. More and more, you will start to ignore, and have more willing to go over. And at the end, only pain and regret, you will get.
3. Romantic date for special occasions
A romantic date is for couples who enjoy a lot of sweetness or want to increase their love for each other more and more. It can be a special occasion that make a couple feel lustfully each other. It's a condition of love that two people have to face with their decision. Trust, value, sacrifice, and responsibility must be a part for a couple to consider beforehand.
4. Official date with parents
At this point, we can say that it is not a date of a couple, but it is a visitation or a formal meeting and observing with parents because it is customary to do. It's also a stage that you have to be ready before you decide to do it. Because it's not easy for you to be kidding with them. You know? A decision of disagreement of both sides is too difficult to do because it is a kind of contempt on each other.
KROCH Udom (Male, 22, an English / Khmer Article Writer at PLAN-B Cambodia, a Leading Japanese IT Solution Company in Cambodia)
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