Meeting someone who suddenly makes you feel alive and loved is very exciting. You may think no one has ever made you feel like this and you can’t help but be amazed at the chemistry, or electricity between you and this new love. Many relationships start this way. But sadly those involved don’t take the time to get to know each other before jumping into something serious.
Often these kinds of relationships built on infatuation can die as quickly as they spring up. Wikipedia defines infatuation as the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship. It is characterized by urgency, intensity, sexual desire, and or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another.
The truth is, this feeling of urgency and intensity or strong attraction toward another person is not necessarily a reliable indicator of whether you are in love or should immediately dive into a serious dating relationship.
1.The Best Relationship Starting From Friendship First
We know that a good relationship starts with friendship. As we spend time together, we will begin to discover each other's attitude, behavior, way of living as well as to find the one we want. Everything is starting at a step, but sadly, many people take their feelings since the first day they dated and deeply fall in love as if they finally meet the right one, and he says, "This one is mine," but it is really true love?
#When you rush to start a relationship like this, you're actually making a mistake.
#Learn to be patient and humble
#Impatience is a sign of a kiddo relationship in which you or your partner will personally hurt yourself
In fact, the best relationship is from a friendship.
2. You Are Not Fell in Love But Can Be a Fell in Drainage
The sign of those who rush into a relationship:
- Always raise an imaginary topic
- Always promise but never take action
- High expectations with zero effort
- Believe in your feelings rather than the truth
- Always make mistakes while being having a connection with others.
- Does not let the relationship grow, but want it to happen just in a few days.
- Always use the feeling to make a decision which could cause the stress out and complicated while it is just easy stuff.
3. Misunderstanding the meaning of love can hurt yourself
The romance story you see in movies does not reflect the real love life. It does not show how much time they have to take to build a strong bond relationship, and they do not show the commitment of each couple because in the movie they both follow the storyline, as the writer and director are leading. Story. The 22 episodes of the movie, we can only spend one night watching it, and they end up the story with a happy ending, but real life is not as easy as you think.
4. Do not rush to start a relationship with your infatuation feeling
Do not rush with love, learn from each other first. You might want to start but does your partner want to build your future with you? Also, learn from people surround him/her because those people will tell you what type of person is this. Make sure that this person has a good relationship with his/her family. Family is all about everything. You can learn from this point too.
5. True Love takes time
True Love does not happen just in a few hours or days. It is such a funny when one person is looking for a partner in social media platform or dating application and after dating each other just only once or twice, they suddenly claim that “This is the right person for me. I am going to love him/her from the bottom of my heart”. Is that it? No, True Love does not happen in this way, but it is about spending time learning, forgiving from each other especially his/her hobbies, way of living is really match with you?
6. You have been SINGLE for a very time, why not just wait a little bit more?
You are not just single but a very long time already. You are waiting for the right one to come into your life. You have been single because you are afraid. You are afraid of choosing the wrong person, you are afraid that you will hurt, you will meet the bad one or you are afraid that person will not take care of your heart. So, why need to rush? Be patience. Observe this person and make sure this person also loves you as you do or make sure this person is not a price tag partner. By doing this, you will never hurt yourself anymore.
Authored by: Un Tola
“Every individual is unique&so is each relationship. So maybe there’s no one who would understand this”