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Why Are You Single?

Why are you single? Simple question, but hard to answer. You want to confess to the world that you don’t want to be alone. You also want to have someone come into your life and fulfill your happiness. But, sometimes you don’t even know why you still have no enough commitment and challenge to have one, don’t you? that why you seem permanently alone. Here are some points that possibly state in your mind that why you are not willing enough to look for someone.

1. You value your independence

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There is the main reason that makes you not easy to get into a relationship is about valuing independence. Being single keeps you more independent than being a couple. This is what you think. You want to keep your self-value and self-esteem. Accordingly, there are some main points of lifestyle that you prefer to tackle independently. Those points might be about money, emotional, social, career and personal style. You want to achieve and respond these burdens by yourself. You want others to value what you have accomplished, and you can rate yourself to improve straightly. These are full in your head that why you are less willing to get in touch with someone.

2. You are afraid of choosing the wrong person

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You feel afraid of choosing the wrong person, and so does everyone. You deeply imagine how hurtful it is when your little pure heart ends up a mismatch person. You assume you cannot stand for the disappointment.

Overall, you potentially pay close attention only the negative side that you have saved from a small group of lovers, movies, love storybooks and so on. Conversely, It also has its positive impacts that you should consider to start a relationship. It is 50%/50%. If you do not want to take the risk, it is up to you. But you have to remember that to love someone doesn’t mean you have to let your partner lead your life, happiness, decision, and behavior. Be a good considerate person. Once you are ready to stop your single life, start with a smart decision.

3. You prioritize your work

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In this point, you are so willing to have a stable job that can guarantee to bright your future before getting into a relationship. You heavily focus on performing your work to make sure you are a qualified employee or employer. Also, you have to tackle the high responsibility of your family. Therefore, you have no feeling to think about love while you are chasing your dream. This can be a reason that you are still single, and unavailable

4. You don’t trust others

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You are single because you are not confident enough to trust people who come into your life. Through social influence, you are about having inadequate experiences about people and society. Unfortunately, people who have ever wanted to get in touch with you did not show any trustworthy reference to make you feel warm enough to accept them.

5. People who come to your life are not your standard

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You stay single because you do not meet the one you prefer to. Perhaps, you are the one who sets a high target to choose a partner. Your mind is so fancy. You always change your mind when you coincidentally see someone special than the previous ones. This might be unfair to others. Somehow, it is not about high expectation or version. It’s about the difference. You prefer to be matched. Unluckily, all people come to your life, even one never match.

What the ideal? As we precisely know that people have different interest, social status, and so on. So if you are waiting for someone to perfectly match, I think you will never. For solutions, you should not be too accurate. Learn to accept something different, and challenge it. At least, you can learn from this as a life lesson.

 

Authored by:

KROCH Udom (Male, 22, an English / Khmer Article Writer at PLAN-B Cambodia, a Leading Japanese IT Solution Company in Cambodia)

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